Men, who want their spouse to work instead of raising their own children, are looking for power and acquisition instead of love and sacrifice. They are a bunch of wimps. Steer clear from them. Wimps!
Picking up heavy equipment is not, in and of itself, doing or being a man. Handling challenges and threats, THAT would be more appropriate and conducive to being a real man.
I wanted to write this post after I had an interesting conversation with a male person I often see around town and this time, I was introduced to him at a party a few days ago, that left me wanting to jump on his chest with both my feet.
We were talking about life and other things and he said “I told my wife she had to go back to work after the birth of our child because it is too stressful for me to have to provide by myself for my family. She wants to stay home with our son, but I would like us to have nice vacations and perhaps be able to buy a better car …. I can’t stand it. It is just too much, too stressful”.
If he had stopped at that, there would have been no problem. I would have left his presence in total disgust but would have not said a thing. But when he said, “You know, you understand how things go, it’s tough, what do you think? ..…”
Huh? What do I think? Too bad he asked so I answered him “No, I do not get it. A man who is weak and can’t handle stress should not have gotten married and made a family. A real man would do whatever needs to be done to take care of his family. I guess if you were a coal miner, you would be peeing on your pants and crying like a bitch every time you had to go down there in that cavernous place. What do you think? That coal miners love their jobs? No, they don’t. But they do what they have to do in order to take care of business”. If he’ll ever see me again, I guess he won’t be talking to me, anytime soon.
Wimp! Wimps love a hard working woman. They like really independent girls, go getters, hard workers, great achievers, this way they can relax and let the woman do the work. Urghh!