HE’S NOT INTERESTED!!!!

1 - uselessI received a surprise text from a woman who became a client two years ago after she heard me speak at an event.  At the time I told her that she would be better off if she dumped her boyfriend. She didn’t hear me. Here’s her text: “again, he went to his family’s party and didn’t invite me. 3 years and I never met his family. what do I do now?”.  Here is her situation: dating this fella for 3 years, he never introduced her to his family or friends, and often go on family events and vacations without my former client. He has met all her friends but always has an excuse why he cannot attend her family events when she invites him. He posts all kinds of fun pictures on Facebook about the fun events and vacations he’s on with his family and friends but never once, posted a picture of them together. He will break up a date night with her to go hang with a friend or his family.

When I was working with her she would make up all kinds of excuses for him and tried to convince me that contrary of his behavior, he loved her so much. After working with her unsuccessfully for 6 months I gave up. She wasn’t listening then and she won’t listen now but I texted her to look at my blog today, I would have an answer for her. She won’t listen but someone who is on the same situation, my answer may be helpful to them.

*shouting from the top of my lungs* IF HE HASN’T INTRODUCED YOU TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS WITHIN 6 MONTHS, STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR THIS SCHMUCK. HE’S NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND AND ALL YOU ARE, IS A BOOTY CALL WHEN IT’S CONVENIENT FOR HIM. You don’t show love for someone by using them for your own convenience.

 

Comments

  1. Shirley says:

    agree. Women just afraid to be alone.

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