Ladies, the point of dating is not to change somebody else to what you want. The point of dating is to discern whether or not he is what you want, to see if you are a match. When you are dating somebody, you want to see how they handle the universe (stresses, finances, life, etc.), then if his way to handle life is not how you wish to handle your universe; arguing about it or trying to change him to what you want is useless, pointless.
Ladies who make the mistake of staying and trying to change the guy to what they want, fail miserably. Leave before you waste anymore time. You can find the right person. There are a lot of men out there looking for the right woman. Once you see behaviors that is not what you like or want, go date somewhere else.